I need some help over hebecause I am truely clueless.
The Wiring
This is the wiring that should put it into flashmode. Only the Red LED is on.
If I disconnect GPIO0 and reboot a blue led turns on.

The modules
http://www.banggood.com/ESP8266-ESP-201-Remote-Serial-Port-WIFI-Transceiver-Wireless-Module-p-964288.html
http://www.banggood.com/ESP8266-ESP-201-Remote-Serial-Port-WIFI-Transceiver-Wireless-Module-p-964288.html
The Story
First time I tried to use the NodeMCU Flasher. I didn't know the baudrate, and just tried to install the bin that is packaged internally into the application. The first time it failed and I reconnected the device and second time is succesfully wrote the firmware to the chip 100%.
When I tried to flash the firmware for a third time, things started to get ugly. If I remember correctly first the baudrate was 74880, trying to reflash at this baudrate made the NodeMCU flasher error out again. I tried the baudrate 115200 and it showed some progress, around 1/10 of the bar it gave me the following error:
Note:Auto MAP serial port.Port-->COM3
Note:Serial port connected.
Note:Begin find ESP8266.
Note:ESP8266 ACK success.
Note:ESP8266 ACK success.
Note:Set base address success.
Note:Program flash success.
...
Note:Program flash success.
Error:Write flash timeout.I also tried ESPLorer on the same baudrate. ESPLorer isn't able to connect to the ESP in flashmode but it is in normal mode with GPIO0 disconnected.
PORT OPEN 115200
Communication with MCU...
Got answer! AutoDetect firmware...
Can't autodetect firmware, because proper answer not received.
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connecting ....
Erasing flash...
Writing at 0x00000000... (0 %)
...
Writing at 0x00009c00... (7 %)
Invalid head of packetHelp?