So there are plenty of guides online describing how to hook up a relay to the ESP when the relay is hooked up to a board. However I haven't been able to find anything on hooking up bare relays. And since I'm really cheap and was planning on making an entire battalion of these things, opted to buy the bare relays off of amazon for way cheaper. Definitely paying for it now since I'm struggling so much with this circuit though .
Here is what I've done so far, plus a few variations with mixed results. Including having the solder melt off of my 3.3 volt regulator on the voltage out pin
Can any more experienced users give me a clue as to how clueless I am?
Thanks for looking! This community rocks!!!