I'm brand new to the ESP8266 community and I have been fiddling and working on a project that would really be a life saver for me, but I have one unsolved problem.
I want to control my water heater with my NodeMCU board, and a relay, but I also want to keep the manual switch, so I decided that a three-way switch system would be the best option. But then there is the problem that with my NodeMCU and the Blynk app I can only see if my relay is active or not, and not if the water heater is on. This means that I have to have a status indicator that returns to the NodeMCU and over it's analog input says whether the water heater is on or not. The manual switch will have a little light indicating if the heater is on, but I don't know how to feed the NodeMCU the status data since the heater works on European mains voltage (230V).
Any suggestions on how to solve this efficiently and safely? Please