I seems that these can't be changed... I looked at the several (named the same Wire.ccp and Wire.h) none have any in the code space versioning identification so I was forced to rely on the external file dating to guess the most recent. All had different coding of Wire.ccp and Wire,h.
Looks like there is no bit banging software for I2C on the Esp32
Anyway thanks to a soldering iron and two short lengths of insulated copper wire these buried coding features can be worked around. The necessary connections are now soldered to the hardware pins 21 and 22.