my connection are following:
esp-01 FTDI board
VCC VCC(3.3v)
GND GND
TX RX
RX TX
CHP-PWD VCC
RST VCC
it is just not connecting to serial monitor of arduino ide
one thing more i notice was that when i connect CHP-PWD to VCC the voltage between vcc and gnd of esp drops to 3.1v, first i thought it was a power supply issue but it tried separate power supply and even tried to connect resistor in between. but no luck